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FSAD (Female Sexual Arousal Disorder) DrugsYes, they are working on FSADs, testing the effects of Pfizer's new female sexual arousal disorder drug on women. Pfizer, who is also the maker of the men’s sexual dysfunction pill, Viagra, say that their new drug is the closest thing to Viagra for women that has been produced so far in capsule form. A small study has shown improvements in blood flow to female genitals for both humans and rabbits. The participants in the clinical trial said that they found an increase in arousal and the duration of the period that they were aroused. Unfortunately, the effect of increasing blood flow to women’s genitals is not the cure for many cases of women’s sexual dysfunction. Sheryl Kingsberg, who heads the Behavioral Medicine Division at Cleveland’s University Hospital Case Medical Center, noted this point. “The problem is that a Viagra-like effect will not solve the majority of sexual dysfunction cases in women. In contrast to men, in whom erections have played a huge role in sexual health, for women arousal is not the key problem, desire is," Ms. Kingsberg is quoted as saying. I’m not sure if you should class lack of desire, or specifically lack of desire for your partner as a sexual dysfunction. Perhaps because it’s not solely based on physical response, but also touches on whether or not you are turned on by the “idea” of having sex with a specific person. If nothing else in your life has changed, and you are still in love with your partner and have respect for your partner, and you don’t feel desire, even in your fantasies, then yes, you have a sexual dysfunction. If you loathe the person you are supposed to be living with, then you have a different problem altogether. FSAD (Female Sexual Arousal Disorder) pills will not work if you don’t want to have sex with someone. You don’t even have to dislike your partner. Women are not above responding to the same sexual cues as men. Has he gained weight or started losing his hair? Is he less physically appealing to you? Has the sex become fairly predictable? To the point where you could recite the movements he’ll make before he makes them? Has he stopped being “masterful” in bed? Is he a lot less dominating? Have you been pulled on top, once to often, without any kind of sexual reciprocity? The current female sexual enhancers are not miracle pills. And neither are the oils and creams to stimulate your clitoris. Somewhere along the line, you have to desire to have sex with your partner and a have a willingness to participate in the relationship. Which bring us to the “T” word. That’s right, you have to be willing to talk about what’s wrong, without being insulting. This is almost impossible, as men take their sexual performance seriously. Sexual performance criticism is right up there with penis size, when you are talking to a man. Or, to put it in female terms, if he turned around and said to you that you’re fat, you’re boobs are too small and he much rather have sex with your sister or best friend, we still haven’t reached how bad sexual performance criticism is going to make them feel. So, to start off the discussion, refer to it as “my problem.” Don’t make it his, make his participation the solution to the problem. Use the words “I’d like to try,” and then talk specifically about what you need. Whether it is dominating roll play or varying your usual routine. You want to say that you need more, not that he’s boring. If you’re making an investment in female sexual enhancement products, whether they are over the counter or when they are approved by the FDA and prescribed by your health professional FSAD (Female Sexual Arousal Disorder) drugs, make sure you do the things that will give them a chance to work for you. |
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